We are who shape our world, and our world shapes us. We are one with others, as others are part of us and we are part of them. All the additional elements that shape the others are also shaping us. With AI mediating the production of spaces of encounter and our experience of them, we have now added a new other in our circumstance, an other that is shaped by us and that shapes us. The question of identity includes, then, not only who am I and how I came to be, but who are they and how they came to be. Who am I asks who are you. And you answer what?